How to Be Your Own Best Chum

Posted by admin 23 Dec, 2009

Why do we often shoot ourselves in the foot when we are trying to achieve things that we think are really important?

There lies one of the great paradoxes of humans. Self sabotage is an all too common occurrence. You’d think it would be easy to stop doing it once you know that you are. It is often much more complicated than you think.

What you need and what you want are often quite different things. As much as we like to think that we are consciously in control of our own destiny it is rarely so. Occassionally you find the rarest of people where it is true because their values, beliefs and conscious desires in alignment. These people are truly satisfied with their lives because of their congruency and the consistency of their thoughts and beliefs.

Now envy is not a very productive emotion, it is unlikely to help you on your journey unless of course it inspires you to get your own act together. It would be wise to start some self talk that will set you in the right direction, be on the look out for tools and triggers to assist you.

It may sound strange but this is where it all begins. To know oneself is the first step towards living the life of your dreams. It was no accident that I used the word dreams, as sometimes your unconscious minds sends you message using dreams. How good would it be if you could just tap into your unconscious rather than waiting for it to send you a message? Get the right tools and you will be able to tune into the messages that reveal your innermost thoughts and desires?

You don’t have to hide yourself away in a monastery for years, or enter some mystery school. You could start right this instant. Don’t look for short term solutions, find the right tools and they will last you a lifetime. There is no one book that has all the answers, no simple test that will reveal all.

You need to find the answers from within yourself, sometimes a little bit of gentle guidance is valuable but this is something you mostly need to do on your own. Others do not really know what your conscious and unconscious desires are, only you do, so only you can tell when they are in synchronicity.

Of course it is not always possible to get a perfect match but as long as you get close you’re probably going to have a lot more fulfilling life. Just be aware that some people choose to be unhappy, so not everyone is going to appear to be outwardly fulfilled.

I would certainly rather not live my life this way, however some people are happy being unhappy so who am I to judge? Ultimately it is up to everyone to make their own choices, they need to be at peace with themselves.

If you’re somebody who is looking to make a positive change to your life check out the self sabotage product suite and see what you think.